Pastoral Struggles and Advice Zone

Ministry can be tough. So many pressures can bear down on you at once. Find advice and tips below to help you cope with and adjust your approach to challenges and struggles in ministry. You are not alone.

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Free Love is Caught, Not Taught

Love is not something that can merely be taught; it must be caught.

Loving Children
Starter The Kidmin Covenant

12 Commitments for a Ministry that Pleases the Lord

12 Commitments for Ministry
Starter Kidmin Covenant #01: The Priority of Prayer

“Pray first.” It sounds so simple—yet when the demands of ministry and life pull us in a hundred different directions, that single command can transform our day.

Prioritizing Prayer
Starter Kidmin Covenant #02: The Foundation of God's Word

"Read the Bible" - Let's admit it, sometimes that is easier said than done!

Biblical Foundation
Starter Kidmin Covenant #03: God-Focused Direction

The health of a ministry begins with the health of its leader.

Biblical Submission
Starter Kidmin Covenant #04: A Relational Life Focus

You never know how much someone needs encouragement until you take the time to ask.

Biblical Relationships
Starter Kidmin Covenant #05: The Supremacy of the Bible

When you consistently teach from the Bible, you’re not only shaping young minds, you’re shaping their habits.

Biblical Supremacy
Starter Kidmin Covenant #06: Character Matters

Listening is more than a ministry skill — it’s a spiritual posture.

Character - Listen to God
Starter Kidmin Covenant #07: Maintaining a Teachable Spirit

Being teachable doesn’t mean you’re unsure of your calling. 

Teachable Spirit
Starter Kidmin Covenant #08: Remaining Unoffendable

We are never more like Christ than when we choose to forgive.

Forgiveness
Starter Kidmin Covenant #09: Everything for Jesus!

Do everything as if for the Lord. 

Serving the Lord
Starter Kidmin Covenant #10: Sharing the Spotlight

As ministry leaders, we need to treat praise like a relay baton, not a trophy.

Humility
Starter Kidmin Covenant #11: Leading While Healthy

In a world that glorifies hustle, rest can feel like a luxury—or worse, laziness.

Ministry Health
Free 10 Easy Ways to Partner with Families in Your Ministry

Ten easy steps to help you get started on your goal to partner with families in your church.

Partnering with Parents, Leadership, Equipping
Plus 110 Reasons I Love Children's Ministry

Need a good reason to love Children's Ministry? How about 110 reasons?

Encouragement
Plus 3 Leadership Blind Spots and How to See Them

Each of us have blind spots in our life and ministry that we may not be aware of.

Leadership
Plus 3 Resolutions for your Church Ministry in 2019

What small things can you do to make 2019 even better for your ministry?

Resolutions, New Year, Priorities
Plus 3 Things to Help Improve Yourself

How do you work on improving yourself? Is it working?

Self-Improvement
Free 4 Powerful Things Criticism Tells About You

Being the object of criticism can be discouraging and deflating. It can also be an opportunity for growth.

Criticism, Growth, Leadership
Free 4 Reasons The Kids In Your Ministry Are Misbehaving

How do you handle discipline in your ministry? Not just punishment, but maintaining control before it gets out of control? Here are some tips to help you run a smooth Sunday morning (or Wednesday evening).

Discipline, Relationship, Leadership
Plus 4 Ways to Stop Your Hurried Pace of Life

Feel like ministry is on fast-forward mode all the time? Here are four ways to press STOP and learn to pause.

Leadership, Criticism
Plus 5 Lessons Learned From Years of Ministry With My Wife

How do you work in leadership with family in order to avoid unnecessary stress?

Relationships
Plus 5 Questions To Ask Before you Change Something

Change effects all of us in different ways. Make sure you SHOULD make the change before plowing ahead.

Change
Plus 5 Things Children's Ministers Wish Their Senior Pastor Knew

An open letter from those who serve in children's ministry to their senior pastors.

Leadership
Plus 5 Things You Can Do Today to Make Sunday Easier

Make Sunday mornings easier with these 5 tips.

Organization, Leadership, Volunteers
Plus 5 Ways To Instantly Recruit Volunteers

Use this list as a springboard for your own endeavors in recruiting volunteers.

Recruiting, Volunteers
Free 6 Pitfalls Every New Children's Pastor Should Avoid

Avoid these pitfalls that new pastors make. 

Pastor Pitfalls
Plus 68 Reasons Why Children's Ministry Matters!

Kids matter to God and they should matter to us. Here are 68 reasons why.

Importance of CM
Plus 7 Greatest Questions Facing Children's Ministry

Other than take-home papers and a summertime VBS, most people - even church boards - don’t know what children’s ministry should do or be.

Challenges
Free 7 Questions You Can't Ask In Church

Do you know God's commands for your life? Or are you just misunderstanding them? 

Humor, Questions
Plus 7 Tips for the Most Productive Planning Meetings Ever

Don't lead the same ho-hum meetings. Learn tricks to engage your team!

Meetings, Administration
Plus 8 Healthy Leadership Characteristics I Learned from a Kid

 Learn how God used a kid to teach us about healthy leadership.

Leadership
Plus 8 Signs Your Volunteer Needs a Break

Watch for these signs that your volunteers need to take a break from serving in ministry. 

Volunteers
Plus 9 Bad Things Happening When You Forget Ministry Vision

What happens when you lose the vision for your ministry?

Vision
Plus Am I In a Toxic Church Environment?

What does a toxic church environment look like, and when should you leave?

Leadership
Plus Anxiety and Digital Minimalism

How far must you go to reach Digital Minimalism?

Anxiety, Technology
Plus Are We Seeing Clearly in 2020?

How well is your ministry discipling kids?

Discipleship
Plus Are you a Preacher Who Pastors or a Pastor who Preaches?

Do you preach or do you pastor?

Pastoring vs. Preaching
Plus Asking a Volunteer to Step Down

Learn to 'fire' a volunteer while maintaining their dignity and yours. 

Discipline, Volunteers
Plus Be Proactive

You can be the victim in your ministry. Or you can be proactive with your ministry.

Leadership, Struggles
Plus Be Wise

As a pastor, you need to seek God's heart, and then tailor things to fit your ministry. 

Plus But Will They Come Back??

How do you retain visitors to your church?

Return Visitors
Free Can a Pastor Take a Day Off?

Can a Pastor take a day off? Yes, you CAN get a day OFF. And it can be Amazing!

Leadership, Mistakes, Recruitment
Plus Children of Divorce Need YOU to Help Them Manage Their Behaviors

How can you and your volunteers help children deal with stress?

Divorce, Behavior
Free Choose to Speak Life

God brings many people (staff, volunteers, parents and children) into our circle of influence. Pray for them, and choose to speak life into their lives. 

Encouragement, Inspiration
Plus Church, Not Childcare

What do you call your Church's children's service time?

Kids Church
Plus Classroom Management Tips

Some advice on how to manage your classroom at all age levels. 

Classroom management
Plus Collaborative Problem Solving

3 steps to collaborative problem solving.

Problem Solving
Plus Discipleship Roller Coaster

Discipleship is messy and gritty and sloppy, and that’s the beauty. And some weeks that can also be the tough part of it.

Discipleship
Free Do You Apologize Too Much in Recruiting?

Saying "sorry" is a good thing, but not when your goal is to win volunteers to your ministry and vision.

Leadership, Mistakes, Recruitment
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