Pastoral Struggles and Advice Zone
Ministry can be tough. So many pressures can bear down on you at once. Find advice and tips below to help you cope with and adjust your approach to challenges and struggles in ministry. You are not alone.
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Pressing In
Stop trying to do life without Jesus. |
Jesus is all we need | |
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Principles for Managing Difficult Behavior
Here are some key principles for managing difficult behaviors. |
Discipline | |
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Put On Your Oxygen Mask First
Take care of yourself so you can help take care of others. |
Self-Care | |
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Responding to Negative Feedback
A negative comment about you have said or done is not the end of the world, but it often feels like it. Craig Jutila encourages you to move on and make something constructive out of the situation. |
Leadership, Criticism | |
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Scheduling Your Day When There's Not Enough Time
Get tips on how to better manage your time. |
Schedules, Time Management | |
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Sharing the Gospel with Children with Disabilities
How can we share the gospel effectively with children with disabilities? |
Disabilities and the Gospel | |
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Six Ways to Motivate Your Team in Challenging Times
Here are six ideas to build an engaged and motivated team no matter the circumstances. |
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Social Distancing & The Church - WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?
How do I teach “Go To Church” when the church doors are closed? |
Being the Church | |
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Task Management is for Everyone
4 Reasons you may be having an issue with Task Management. |
Task Management | |
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The 2 Asks It Takes to Build a Great Volunteer Team
Use the power of 2 to build a great volunteer team. |
Volunteers, Team Building | |
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The 4 Dragons of Ministry
When did ministry become a job? Find out how to kill the dragons before they kill you spiritually. |
Ministry | |
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The Kidmin Covenant PDF
Download a PDF of the 12 steps of the Kidmin Covenant |
PDF of all 12 Covenants |
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The Single Greatest Recruitment Tool for Kidmin
After years and years of ministry, I have discovered that there is no greater tool for recruiting volunteers for children's ministry. |
Leadership, Prayer, Recruitment | |
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The Toggle Switch In My Brain
What do you do when you're caught between organization and creativity? |
Organization, Creativity | |
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The Tongue
The tongue can be a powerful weapon. |
The Tongue | |
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The Undeniable Benefits Of Longevity In Ministry
What are some of the benefits to longevity in ministry? |
Ministry | |
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There Is No Such Thing As A 'Pastor's Kid'
You need to treat the 'pastor's kids' the same as every other sinner. |
Pastor's Kids | |
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Three Questions for a Healthier Children's Ministry
Here's a few questions to help you gauge the health of your Children's Ministry. |
leadership | |
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Time to Write A Resume? 10 Things NOT To Do | Resume, Job Search | |
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Tips for Student Participation in Large Group
Give yourself a break and use these tips for active participation during large group time. |
Management, Large Group | |
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Toxic Church? Take These Steps!
If you're in a toxic church environment, here are some steps you can take to improve or remove yourself from it. |
Toxicity in a Church | |
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What 2020 Reminded Me About Kidmin Leaders
"When Covid hit, I was reminded of a few things that are true about kidmin leaders." |
Leadership | |
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What Kind of Leader are You? Perfect? Excellent? Or Good Enough?
Is 'Good Enough' good enough? |
Leadership | |
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What Type of Kids' Pastor Are You? | Kids Pastoring | |
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When Is The MOST Critical Time For A Child's Spiritual Growth?
Don't underestimate a child's ability to understand and to worship. |
Spiritual Growth | |
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When KidMin Breaks Your Heart
Ministry has its rewards, but it can also break your heart. |
Kingdom Impact | |
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When Should the Significant Other Start Disciplining the Kids?
Many children's pastors and children's ministry volunteers want to help single parents and families. Here's helpful advice on who should discipline and how. |
Divorce, Single Parenting, Discipline | |
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When Technology Fails
Technology is great... until it isn't. What do you do when your tech fails? |
Technology | |
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When You Wake Up On the Wrong Side of the Bed
Did you wake up on the wrong side of the bed this morning? |
Divorce Ministry | |
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Where Do You Place Your Hope?
Do we place our hope in God, or in man? |
Hope | |
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Why I Never Liked January
Since when are goals only for January? You can set goals any time of year... like now! |
Goal Setting, Leadership | |
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Why Online Church is Not Church
Is church still church if it's online? |
What is the Church? | |
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Your Worst Teacher is Better than the Best Video
Videos are fun, but live teachers are better... even the bad ones! |
Teaching | |
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Feedback is Your Friend
Many a leader sabotaged his or her ministry simply because they were not teachable. How and why you should SEEK out feedback. |
Leadership Development |
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The Strategy of Jesus
Lessons that I learned from the strategic ways of Jesus. These may be quick to read but,like all of the things of Jesus, pack a great punch. |
Leadership | |
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Supporting Kids with Special Needs in Your Children's Ministry
We are entrusted with the incredible privilege of loving and leading God’s precious children. Some may need a little extra care and support due to special needs or behavior challenges. |
Special Needs |
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The Scriptural Mandate for Children's Ministry
Children are not merely the future of the church; they are a vital part of it now. |
Investing in Children |
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The IF ONLY's of Kids Ministry
Let’s be honest. Kids Ministry is TOUGH. Yes, it is full of joy, but it seems equally loaded with challenges. |
Equipped for Ministry |
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Thriving in Ministry: Lessons Learned from Decades in Ministry
7 lessons Karl has learned that can help you sustain your ministry without losing your soul, your family, or your joy. |
Ministry that Endures |
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Kidology Lab Notes: Abraham Lincoln - An Example for Today's Children's Ministry Leaders
5 practical applications that can inspire us to be “Honest Abe’s” for the children of this generation. |
Kidology Lab Notes - Abraham Lincoln |
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Kidology Lab Notes: A Rational Faith - What I Learned from Josh McDowell
Josh McDowell’s story is compelling. A former atheist, he set out to disprove Christianity. |
Kidology Lab Notes - Josh McDowell |
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Kidology Lab Notes: D.L. Moody - A Life Devoted to Reaching the Lost, Starting with Children
Dwight L. Moody is a name that stands tall in the history of evangelism. |
Kidology Lab Notes - D. L. Moody |
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Kidology Lab Notes: Corrie ten Boom - Lessons in Ministry Courage
Corrie ten Boom's story is a powerful reminder of what it means to live a life of faith, courage, and conviction. |
Kidology Lab Notes - Corrie ten Boom |
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Kidology Lab Notes: Tina Houser - A Creative Champion for Children's Ministry
Tina Houser was one of the most creative and prolific content creators I have ever known. |
Kidology Lab Notes - Houser |
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Kidology Lab Notes: Henrietta Mears - Pioneer of Modern Sunday School and Children's Ministry
Henrietta Cornelia Mears was one of the most influential Christian educators of the 20th century, shaping the future of Sunday School and profoundly impacting children’s ministry. |
Kidology Lab Notes - Mears |
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Kidology Lab Notes: Albert Einstein - From Curious Child to World-Changing Physicist
Albert Einstein is widely regarded as one of the greatest scientific minds in history. Could you be nurturing the next great mind? |
Kidology Lab Notes - Einstein |
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The Story of Kidology Continues in 2025!
Kidology started in 1994 while the Internet was still a mystery to most people. There was no eBay, PayPal, YouTube, or Google, and Amazon had just barely launched. |
Kidology Origins |
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The Wise Men Gave with the Future in Mind
As you think about your gifts this season, I encourage you to prayerfully consider the ministries that are making a difference for Jesus. |
Giving |
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Make Table Talkers a Part of Your 2025 Family Ministry Strategy!
Table Talkers are the perfect solution to kickstart family conversations and incorporate spiritual growth into everyday life. |
Connect Families |
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The Story of Three Trees (God's Trees)
This is Karl's version of the beautiful fable of The Three Trees. Ideal for Christmas or Easter. |
Faith Adventure |